| Do you sometimes wonder, "Is this all there is to life?"....Or feel lost or alone or fearful. Are you trying to overcome bad habits, even addictions? Do you feel guilty or ashamed of things you've done? Are you just fed up with the apparent meaninglessness of your everyday life? Are your days or nights filled with worry and woe? Are you a good person but know that's not really enough? Are you wounded, bitter, angry, or can't let go of the past? Do you have questions our culture can't answer? Do you need to be accepted? Do you need friends? Every one of us at His Friends Christian Community had the same experiences. We all found that becoming a Christian, accepting Jesus, is the answer. |
| What is that thick book the Bible actually about? The main theme of the Bible and of Christianity is God's love for you. God's love was revealed when His son, Jesus, came to us as a real person, lived a sinless life, died on the cross and rose from the dead. Because Jesus died, your sins and mine can be forgiven. Because He conquered death, we can have eternal life. For God so loved the world that he sent his one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life...John 3:16 This free gift of forgiveness and life cannot be yours unless you willingly and deliberately accept it. God requires each of us to make an individual, personal choice. The next step in becoming a Christian is to repent of our sins. The root of the word repent means to turn off of one path and take another. Sin is an ancient archery term; it means to miss the target altogether. Each of us individually needs to turn from the dead path of missing life's target and take the satisfying path of living with Jesus. Sometimes these two steps aren't easy. Please don't feel you have to do this alone. We at His Friends or any Christian friend or acquaintance, or the people at any church can help you. Its important to talk with and pray with Christian people. What next? Once you've gotten acquainted with Christian people, made the decision to accept God's love through Jesus, and repented, there are several things you should do make Christianity a reality in your life: *Be baptized. Its a sacred act acknowledging your new faith. *Participate in organized Bible study and worship services so you can learn and grow as a new person. *Hang out with Christian people; you all will help each other stay on the right path. *Serve other people with kindness and share the good news of Jesus with them. |
| Do you have questions or even objections about becoming a Christian? Do you need to talk to or pray with someone? Please don't hesitate to contact us via email below. We'll pray for you and, if you like contact you, to try to help. God bless you hisfriendsorg@yahoo.com |
| My personal testimony I am the son and grandson of Old Regular Baptist pastors. Clearly I had an early, long, and in depth exposure to Christianity; but it didn't somehow stick to me. Due in large part to the mistreatment and belittling of Appalachian people in Cincinnatti, where I grew up, I developed a compulsion for academic elitism and financial success to bolster self esteem. I achieved academic success in literature, history, social sciences, and finance. By age thirty-two, I was also a senior officer at a large commercial bank... and my achievements were meaningless. Other than these successes my life was a mess. I was separated from family, had only one friend I trusted, had a career I viewed as exploitative, and was on anti-depressant medication that seemed to miss the point. Having rejected Christianity early on, I tried everything else. Psychiatry made me depressed, group therapy annoyed me. New age spiritualism struck me as silly. Eastern religions scared me. Things got worse. Eventually, I was alone, promiscuous but bored, and miserable. For several years, I had been visiting a small bookstore, St. Elmo's, on the south side of Pittsburgh where I lived at the time. St. Elmo's specialized in religion, history, philosphy and so forth. I had become acquainted with the owner. Early on Saturday morning, I asked him, "How did you decide to name your store St. Elmo's?" He said, "St. Elmo is the patron saint of all of us who are lost." I started to cry--felt stupid but couldn't help it. I said, "I'm lost." At this point he stepped to one of the book racks, took a book, and threw it into my bag without charging me. He said, "You're found now." When I got home, I saw that he had given me a New Testament. "Why not?" I thought and began to read. As I read the Sermon on the Mount, I thought, "What a great teacher Jesus was; what a great moral philosopher." Then I read the miracles in Mark, "I can't explain it; Jesus must have been some kind of holy man." Then I read at the end of Luke, the episode in which a sinful woman interrupts Jesus' meal with a religious scholar to wash his feet with her tears. In the end, Jesus forgives her sins which were many. Without thinking or intending to, I said aloud, "This book is true." In that truth saying moment, I accepted Jesus and felt a huge rush of relief and hope. My life's not perfect now; but I have hope, community, and a friend I trust. If you need to discuss becoming a Christian, or just have questions, feel free to contact me hisfriendsorg@yahoo.com |
| I have never regretted becoming a Christian for a single moment. You won't either. |